Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Value: Rediscovering Your Worth and Reclaiming Your Power

You are a powerhouse.

You’ve built your business from the ground up, turning your passion into a multi-six-figure venture. But lately, things feel harder. It’s like you’re trapped in a bubble, struggling against an invisible ceiling that keeps you from breaking through. You’ve been wondering what’s wrong, questioning your abilities, and fearing that one day someone will find out you’re not as successful as you seem. But here’s the truth: your value isn’t defined by what you achieve, how much money you make, or what others think of you. Your value is intrinsic—it’s woven into who you are, and it’s time to reconnect with it.

Understanding Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Value

Intrinsic value is your inherent worth, the value you possess simply because you exist. It’s rooted in your unique skills, wisdom, experiences, and the light you bring to the world. No one can take this away from you; it’s yours and yours alone. On the other hand, extrinsic value is the worth assigned to you by external factors—your income, accolades, social status, or the opinions of others. For too long, you’ve been measuring your worth by these external markers, convincing yourself that you’re only as valuable as your latest success or the praise of others.

The problem with relying on extrinsic value is that it’s fleeting and unpredictable. When things are going well, it’s easy to feel on top of the world. But when challenges arise, as they inevitably do, this external validation can vanish, leaving you feeling empty and questioning your worth. This is where you find yourself today—caught in a cycle of doubt, giving away your time for free, and undercharging for your brilliance because you feel unworthy.

The Trap of Extrinsic Validation

You’re not alone in this struggle. Many high-achieving women, especially those who have faced trauma or abuse, fall into the trap of seeking validation outside themselves. It’s a survival mechanism that once kept you safe—hiding behind a mask, playing small, and trying to meet everyone else’s expectations. But this has come at a cost. Each time you undervalue your services or give away your time, you reinforce the belief that your value is tied to what you do, not who you are.

You’ve fooled yourself into thinking that “just enough” is okay. But deep down, you know it isn’t. You’re meant for more. And every time you let fear dictate your choices, you dim your light a little more, allowing the darkness to close in. You’re desperate to break free, to step out of hiding, and to reclaim the confidence and self-worth that you know are within you.

Reclaiming Your Intrinsic Worth

The first step to breaking through this glass ceiling is to recognize that you are not defined by your circumstances, past mistakes, or even your current struggles. Your intrinsic value is constant, unchanging, and infinitely powerful. When you reconnect with this truth, everything else begins to shift.

Start by reflecting on the unique qualities and gifts you bring to your clients. Your wisdom, compassion, and determination have helped countless people transform their lives. This is your value—it’s not something you need to earn or prove; it’s simply who you are. And it’s time to start charging for it unapologetically.

Step Out of the Shadows

You’ve been hiding for too long, cloaked in invisibility that once kept you safe but now holds you back. You are worthy of success, joy, and the life you dream of—not because of what you do, but because of who you are. You are ready to step out of the shadows and into the spotlight where you belong. It’s time to stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” and start declaring, “This is who I am, and I am enough.”

Your journey is not about proving your worth; it’s about recognizing it. When you embrace your intrinsic value, you’ll find the courage to set boundaries, charge what you’re worth, and stop giving away your time for free. You’ll break through the glass ceiling and create a business that not only feeds your soul but also provides the prosperity and freedom you’ve always wanted.

The Path Forward: Rewire Your Brain for Success

To truly embrace your intrinsic worth and transform your business, it’s essential to rewire the way you think about success, money, and your own value. That’s exactly what we’ll be diving into in my upcoming Rewire Your Brain for Success Masterclass. This is not just another workshop—it's an opportunity to break free from the limiting beliefs and patterns that have been holding you back.

In this masterclass, you’ll learn how to:

Clear the Mental Blocks: Uncover and release the subconscious beliefs that are sabotaging your success and keeping you stuck in a cycle of self-doubt and fear.
Rewire Your Brain: Develop a powerful new mindset that aligns with your intrinsic value and empowers you to take bold, confident action.
Transform Your Results: Implement strategies to increase your revenue, set and achieve your most ambitious goals, and build a business that reflects your true worth.

This is your time to step into your power, own your brilliance, and create the life and business you’ve always dreamed of. You have everything you need within you to succeed—all you need is the right support and guidance to ignite your potential.

If you’re ready to break through that glass ceiling, reclaim your worth, and start living your most authentic, powerful life, join me for the Rewire Your Brain for Success Masterclass. Let’s take this journey together and transform your mindset, your business, and your life from the inside out. Your future self will thank you.

Click here to learn more and reserve your spot. You’re worth it!